exciting times

Being excited for something is pretty fun! Are you looking forward to some upcoming event and are excited for it? It happens to everyone. Lets say school is coming to an end soon and you are finally graduating this year. Who wouldn’t be excited about this?! You obviously are going to be a bit nervous for after the day is over, but this is something you have looked forward to for a very long time. There are some things that you wait a really long time to happen and once they happen you are the happiest ever at that moment. You get even more excited for things, if you have to keep waiting for the event to happen. Another example is lets just say your best friend is having a party this weekend. And it is a Halloween party, your favorite holiday ever! After finding out your best friend planned a party you find out that the rule is you have to dress up for it. Ironically you love dressing up for Halloween so this makes you really happy and excited for the weekend. All week in school you can not focus on anything else other than this party. Once you become that excited about something that you can’t even think about anything else other than that, you know you are at the highest level of excitement. Another type of excitement you may experience is being scared excited. You are expecting to get called down to the office or you get pulled over by the police you get excited. But of course not in a good way. You’re very scared excited because you obviously don’t want to get in trouble by the school or the cops. Those are two different types of excitement you can experience. Being happy excited is probably the best kind of excitement. Being excited about a thing or an event is such a good feeling!

hopes and dreams

You should never give up on something that you really want. Sometimes you will find yourself feeling a little hopeless. But stop that! If you are hopeful about things it will make it have a better result. If you want something more than anything, do whatever you can do get it. Here are some examples of some situations and how you can handle them in the best way. Lets just say you have a test next block and you did not study at all. Instead of just telling yourself you are going to fail, why don’t you try studying during the class you are in, and then study right before the class. Therefore you could be hopeful that you will at least pass the test. Another situation is when you really like someone but you aren’t sure if they like you. Maybe you feel like you aren’t good enough for them. Well don’t think like that! Just be hopeful about it. Think positive. If you ask them or even have a friend talk to the person about you, maybe they might feel the same way. You never know until you try. Being hopeful is the best thing you could do in pretty much any situation you find yourself in. If you are hopeful about situations then you will find yourself being a lot happier than when you are giving up hope on things. But don’t get me wrong at some points you are going to eventually have to give up. But it is only okay to give up when you give it your all in the first place. If you put everything into what you want and somehow it just doesn’t work out for you, you can either keep trying or find something else to work towards. But if you are in a situation where you are trying and hoping that a boy will change for you when in the past they have treated you very poorly, I wouldn’t advise you to keep hoping for a change. Just be hopeful and you’ll be happier in the long run.

butterflies

Meeting someone that you enjoy talking to is such an amazing feeling. You are most definitely not in love, but you really like this person. In other words, you are “in like” with someone. Liking someone is both exciting and nerve racking. When you first start liking someone try talking to them about things you like and ask them what they are into. People like having someone that actually cares about them. Therefore you should ask them about what they like and get to know about the things that they are interested in. Once you guys start talking and get over the most awkward part things kind of start getting nerve racking. But don’t sweat it, the key thing to know when talking to someone new is never try to push too far. Make sure you know their limits, and what they want first. If you don’t know what they want with you, or out of this situation then you are pretty much stuck in a sticky situation. So just come out and ask them what they want! When you guys are clear about what each other want then you guys will be good. The honey moon stage of being “in like” is the best feeling. You are just so fascinated with the person, and you want to spend a lot of time with them. Again, just make sure you know your limits. Don’t try to be with them every single moment of every single day. But try and go and small, cute little dates and see where that goes. When you like someone you should try and do nice things for them, make them feel wanted. The most important thing to do is make sure the person you like knows you like them, and you know if they like you. Eventually you’ll like someone so much you might even fall in love with them, but that’s a new beginning to a whole other story.  

AWKWARD

Do you ever feel awkward in certain situations? I hate feeling awkward. There is no reason to make things awkward, if you’re mature about things you won’t have to worry about making things awkward. For example if you like someone and things don’t work out, do not make things awkward with the other person. Just be friends, or at least civil. If you decide to make things awkward you just won’t be in as good as a mood you could be in. Things aren’t always going to work out with everyone. Sometimes things happen that aren’t always in your favor. You have to learn how to handle things more maturely. When people make things awkward it is not only awkward between the two people but it also makes things awkward with others surrounding them. Your friends are effected by the way you act sometimes. So if you don’t enjoy being in awkward situations, do you really think your friends will want to be involved too? No, they probably will not be thanking you at the end of the day. When you act maturely and take care of things the right way you feel a lot better about the situation. Lets just say you and your boyfriend or girlfriend broke up. And it didn’t end very pleasantly. Instead of trying to avoid them, and stare at the creepily just try acting like nothing even happened. What is the point in pointing out the fact that you two broke up and making a big deal out of it. It is high school, I highly doubt many high school relationships last forever. But I mean if they do good for you! Anyways, instead of making a big deal about a break up, just be happy and carry on with life. Life goes a lot smoothly without the pointless awkwardness involved.

birds and the bees and the flowers and the seeds.

Love is a wonderful thing. Love comes in all sorts of ways. But at the end of the day love is love. Being in love is such an amazing feeling. It’s those butterflies in your stomach once you see that person. It’s the laughs you share together. It’s the way you can’t stop looking at them. You feel like you’re on top of the world when you first fall in love. But don’t be fooled, love is a battlefield. It is most definitely not all roses and goodies. Everyone who is in love goes through the ups and downs. But you know it is love when the downs don’t over take the ups. When you’re in love with someone sometimes you can’t help but to fight about the dumbest little things. But if you really love someone you learn to ignore the little things and just move on. When you are in love you can’t help but talk about the person. You admire your significant other. Being in love makes you so happy inside, you want nothing but to be with that person. It helps when you have many things in common with the person you are in love with. This is because if you guys have the same interests you guys can go out and do more things together. Some people get caught up in funks in relationships. This is because they need some spicing up in their love. The number one rule of love is you must love yourself before you can be capable of loving another person. Love isn’t always relationships. Family is love. Even if you and your family do not get along very well you still deep down will always love them. Family is the strongest love you can have. Because you know no matter what they will always be there for you. You can also love pets, objects, sports, activities pretty much anything. Like I said before love comes in different shapes, colors, and sizes.
Love is a beautiful thing, don’t let it slip through your life.  

HAPPY HAPPY HAPPY

“Happy Happy Happy”, just be happy. You may find yourself getting a little down today. Well don’t be. There are plenty of reasons to be happy in life. Sit down sometime, and think about all the things in your life that could be way worse. Bad things are going to happen. You’re going to be put in a sucky situation. But you can’t let that ruin your happiness. I’m not saying it’s not right to be happy, because people are people you’re going to get upset at times. It’s just very important to be genuinely happy no matter what. This pretty much means when you get upset don’t let it completely get you down. Being happy is the greatest feeling. If you’re a happy person you’re obviously going to affect others around you. When you’re in a good mood , it could rub off on the people you surround yourself with. Did you know it takes less muscles to smile than to frown? Plus everyone looks better smiling. If you see a person frowning and all upset you’re not going to want to confront them. But if you see a person smiling and laughing you are going to want to be around them and have a good time. Being happy is pretty simple. All you have to do is do stuff that makes you happy. For example, when I go riding I feel so free and I don’t have many worries. And when I come back I’m just really happy and pumped. But also it’s the littlest things that can make you happy along with the things you love do to. Surrounding yourself around the people you love and care about will also make you happy. Music makes some people happy. Music is a way to express yourself, and once you can express yourself you can feel comfortable and happy. Being happy is very important. But honestly, have you ever heard someone say “Who needs to be happy, I rather be sad”? No. Why, because everyone deep down wants to and deserves to be happy.