I miss you (N2)

This blog will be about missing someone who once was a huge part in your life. Missing someone can be hard. When you go from talking to them every single day, to not saying a word to them for a couple of weeks kind of blows. It takes a toll on you eventually. When you miss someone you tend to think about them a lot more than you usually would. You feel the want to talk to them, and try to start a conversation with them, but you know things really won’t ever be the same. Sometimes you unwillingly start to miss someone. I know it sounds pretty stupid but it can happen. Little things remind you of this person, and more and more you want to talk to them. Having someone who used to be with you on a daily basis never talk to you anymore is pretty rough to deal with. Especially if it is an ex boyfriend or girlfriend. It is pretty normal to miss an ex. You don’t miss the fighting, and you definitely do not miss the horrible times that caused you two to not be together anymore, but you miss the times you guys were incredible. The times where you couldn’t stop smiling because you were so happy. You miss the times where things were great. You want to feel that feeling again, because for some reason you haven’t felt that way in awhile. But in the end, you know its not a good idea to try to talk to this person, because things happened for a reason. It didn’t work out for a reason. So why go through the hard times again. Well in some cases you can become friends with the person but that can be pretty difficult as well and might bring up some old feelings, which is never good. Missing someone can be a really hard thing to deal with if you think about it. You feel like you need to do something but you refuse to allow yourself to do it. Best thing to do in this situation is ask a few friends for advice, or better yet ask a friend who has been in your situation before about what they did about it. Missing someone definitely sucks, but eventually you will get over it, and life will go on.

Appreciation (N1)

This blog will be about feeling appreciated. Being appreciated is a great feeling. When someone thanks you for going out of your way to help them out with something makes you feel good, right? Or when someone thanks you for always being there for them, it makes you feel like the things you are doing are helping other people out. And in my opinion that is an amazing feeling. Here is a scenario that most people can relate to. Lets say your best friend is having troubles with her boyfriend and is really upset about it all and it is very obvious that she needs someone to comfort her. Heres the problem, you already have so many things to do today and you don’t think you will have time to stop over. Instead of doing the things you had to do, you go over her house and bring some Tim Hortons with you. So you just blew off the things that were important to you and helped your friend get through this mess, and help her get into a better mood. But lets say you do this quite often, almost all the time, but when it comes to you being in a slump she doesn’t really help much and doesn’t pay attention to what you are saying. I don’t know about you, but that would bother me. Feeling unappreciated is a terrible feeling. It is super important to make sure you always tell people how much you appreciate them, and everything that they do for you. And also, if someone is always there for you, you should return the favor and be a shoulder they can lean on also. Everybody needs their own support system, rather its their family or friends. Feeling appreciated makes you feel good about yourself. You know you helped someone else out, and you and your actions meant something to someone and that honestly has to be the best feeling.  

Mixed Emotions 600 WORDS! (M1 and M2)

This blog will be about having mixed emotions. Everybody has those moments when they have no idea how they are feeling. It gets really complicated and it confuses many people not just yourself. Having mixed emotions is terrible because one moment you can be totally for something but then the next you could be completely against it. Also when you are experiencing having mixed emotions you can be super happy, but also depressed at the same time. It is a horrible feeling and not many people know how to handle it. Honestly, there probably isn’t a right way to handle having mixed emotions. They can tear you apart and make you become distant from people. Everybody has those times where they just need to go be alone and figure out themselves. Jumping from one relationship to another one can cause you developing mixed emotions. This is because when you jump from person to person you still have feelings from your most recent relationship,  even if you don’t want to admit it. Feelings do not just go away with a snap of the finger. You need to give yourself sometime to be alone and figure out your own feelings before you get someone else’s feelings involved also. Again, do not jump into a relationship after a recent break up for another reason, you may start developing feelings for this new person but you still have feelings for your ex deep down, therefore it could cause you to cheat on the new person who you let to believe you have feelings for. The best thing to do when you develop feelings for a new person is to let them know exactly where you and your ex boyfriend or girlfriend stand. They might feel very awkward knowing about your ex, but at least they know how things are so they know if they have to worry, or if they can feel secure with you. Another thing that may lead to developing mixed emotions not to yourself but to someone else. This is a thing called leading another person on. You make them believe you are feeling something that you do not truly feel. When you act like you have very strong feelings for them but then the next day you don’t even acknowledge their existence. This will most definitely cause them to have mixed emotions. They will want to give up on you so bad, but then you randomly come back and act like you care again. This is probably the most confusing thing that a person can do to another person. The best thing to do in this kind of situation is to be completely honest with a person. If you do not like someone the way they like you, you need to tell them straight up. If you do have feelings for a person but do not know how to show them you need to just bluntly tell them your feelings straight out. This will avoiding causing others to have mixed emotions. Everyone knows having mixed emotions sucks so hard. Another thing that causes people to develop mixed emotions is kind of a complicated. Having feelings for your ex still, even though it has been months and months. It makes you feel very confused and not know what to do. Most people think that they can forget about it over time, but in reality you never really lose feelings for someone unless you confront them about the feelings you are experiencing. You may even hate this person but you still have some feelings for them and you have no idea how it is possible. The best thing to do is to confront them about how you feel and see what they say. The best thing to do about mixed emotions is attack them. Don’t let them bother you and let it all go. Do whatever it takes to be happy.

motivated! (L2)

This blog will be about feeling motivated. Being motivated is a really good thing. When you feel motivated you can pretty much accomplish anything you set your mind to. Motivation is one of the keys to a successful life. When you lose motivation you seem to go down hill fast. Some people need help getting motivated. From the smallest tasks to the largest goals, you need motivation to do pretty much anything. Lets just say your goal this week is to clean your bedroom and do some laundry. But since you only have a little bit of down time you would rather just sleep and relax and chill out. Therefore your lack of motivation prevents you from getting something done that needed to be done. What you really could have done is take little breaks in between cleaning and laundry or clean so fast and then you could have break time afterwards. Lets say your goal for this year is to do a motor swap in a truck. But there is one little problem. You don’t know much about cars or motors, you mostly just know the basics. If you didn’t have the motivation to take the time and learn how to do it correctly then you could either letting it sit there or try doing the work and breaking everything. Best bet is to look up how exactly you can do a motor swap and have someone who knows how to do it help you with it. Sometimes it is very difficult to find motivation to do things we don’t always want to do, but we know it has to be done eventually. People usually get motivated in the activities they enjoy doing. An easy and simple way to get motivated is set multiple goals for yourself, even add in some unrealistic goals so you are motivated to get stuff done. Being motivated will take you farther in life than that guy whom would be lazy, and non motivated.

Stressed the poop out. (L1)

This blog will be about being stressed out. There are multiple things in your life that can cause you to be stressed out. One of the main things that stress people out is money. Money can make or break people. When in reality it really shouldn’t be that important. But it is unbelievably understandable because if you are short on money and have a lot to pay for it gets super stressful. Being tight on money makes you less of a happy person sometimes because all they can think about is how they can pay their bills off. When people are focused on money it makes others not want to be around them much. To avoid being stressed out about money you should try saving money from each paycheck, therefore when you get caught up in a money shortage problem you have money saved for emergencies. Another big thing that stresses people out most is not having enough time in a day. When your schedule is jam packed and you have no time to relax you feel somewhat stressed out. When you’re always on the go and are a busy bee it is difficult to take time to yourself. Taking time to relax, sit down, and time for you to be chilled out is very important. If you never have down time you will probably be super stressed. Some people might choose the wrong things as a stress reliever. For example people may turn to drugs or smoking cigarettes. Way too many people think that cigarettes are the biggest stress reliever, and they couldn’t be more wrong. Doing harmful things to yourself when you are stressed out will not benefit you at all. Some things that help you become less stressed out are exercising, sleeping, talking to someone, doing yoga, and even sometimes a stress ball will help you out a bit too. If you’re feeling stressed don’t worry, there are plenty of things you can do to become less stressed out.

Hunger Struggles

This blog will be about being hungry. Sometimes you can’t help from being hungry. Being hungry is a terrible feeling! Especially when there is no food around or you don’t have money to buy food. It is really hard to concentrate when you are hungry. Your stomach gets all crummy and makes really weird noises. I really do not understand how people can starve themselves. They must be feeling low and droopy. When you don’t eat you become irritable and tired and lazy and pretty crabby. When you’re hungry people might not want to be around you because you get so cranky. Being hungry can also make you move a lot slower than usual. It may make you  feel like your day is just dragging on and on and on. When you are hungry all you can think about is food. Jake Woj said that when he gets really hungry all he wants to do is go munch of so much food and eat all of it in one whole huge bite. Sometimes when you don’t eat for a long period of time you become not hungry at all anymore. But you know that you haven’t ate anything all day so you try to eat something. When you go to eat something, even if it is the smallest amount of food, you end up getting a stomach ache and can’t eat anything. That is probably the worse feeling, even worse than being hungry. To avoid getting hungry and not having a solution to it, start carrying a bunch of healthy snacks with you. You can even pack a little sweet snack in there too. Some good snacks to bring are apples, bananas, strawberries, pretzels, celery, protein bars, and for a little sweet snack you can pack a nice little candy bar, for example a reeses cup, or even  a kit kat bar! Solve your hungry situation and bring snacks in where ever you go, therefore you aren’t too hungry for too long!

Meeting new people.

This blog will be about meeting new people and the feelings you get when you do. I’m going to tell you a quick story of my experience meeting new people. I’ve been talking to this new guy that my best friend introduced me to. He is really good friends with her boyfriend so we thought it would be a good set up. So one day my friend gave him my number and he decided to text me. I was pretty excited because lately the boys I have been trying to talk to end up being poop bags, and just not really my type. So I talked to this guy for a little while, and ever since that day we talk non stop. There aren’t many boring or awkward moments between us at all. When I hung out with him for the first time, it was probably the best time I have had in a really long time. We didn’t do too much but the little things we did was such a good time. I have never meet a guy like this one before. He is a sweet, charming, funny, tall country boy. He wears Wrangler jeans, cowboy boots, camo, flannels, and an old warn out hat. When I first saw him my heart dropped and I was so excited to finally meet him. This is a normal feeling for meeting someone for the first time. Some people feel nervous and act awkward around the person but you just have to think positive thoughts and you will have a good time. By the time the night came to the end, I didn’t want to leave. I had such an amazing night, and I haven’t been this happy in a really, really long time. When he hugged me I didn’t want to let go at all. As I was driving home I couldn’t help but smile and be all happy inside. Meeting new people can be super nerve racking or super exciting. All and all meeting new people is always a great experience.

realtionship regrets

Ex boyfriends sure do suck. Sometimes you feel so much for them still. But other times you just want to kill them. Best thing to do is just ignore them and move the poop on! They are an ex for a reason. Do not feel yourself feeling upset or wondering what if. Because it isn’t worth the worries at all. If something happened then it happened. You really can’t try to fix anything. In most cases when people try to work their relationships out again and again, it just becomes a cycle and the same thing happens each time. Even sometimes worse things can happen if you continue to try to fix things. In my opinion everything happens for a reason. There is no use in trying to fight it, it is what it is. Your main priority should be to become happy again. I mean if fate pushes you two back together, then yes I would try and go back to a good place. Everybody feels down after a break up unless it was a happy break up. That is a weird saying actually. “Happy break up”, since when are break ups happy. Well I guess when it is a mutual break up and both people agree to be friends. Then I suppose it wouldn’t be a terrible break up filled with sad songs and stuff. When you still care for the person you broke up with it is really hard to deal with. It doesn’t mean that you want them back it could mean that you still care about them and how they are doing. It shows how much of a caring and mature person you are. You don’t want to see them hurt and you want to make sure they are happy. In my opinion ex boyfriends shouldn’t even exist, because they cause too much drama. Therefore people should just be civil with each other and be happy.