Some people believe that guys and girls can’t just be just friends. And I’m sorry but this statement is just ridiculous. People need to actually think about this before they say it. Think back to when we were little, girls and boys were always just friends, they didn’t know any better to be anything more...so what makes it not okay for them to continue to be just friends. Of course in some situations when a guy and a girl are friends they can begin to start having feelings for each other. But that doesn’t mean that happens all the time. Now in my situation, I just lost a bunch of my good friends because I became friends with some guy. They don’t like to believe that we are just friends, and for that fact, they just dropped me like I was nothing. Now obviously this showed me that they were never really my true friends anyways, but it is just a horrible feeling losing a good amount of friends to something this stupid. It just goes to show how immature people are. Guys and girls can be just friends. When you are married do you plan on telling your husband or wife that they are not allowed to have friends of the opposite sex? No, you aren’t because they are going to end up working with people of the opposite sex and of course build relationships with them. The only time you have to be worried is when it goes too far. But there is where the trust comes in. If you trust someone you wouldn’t have to worry about that. But anyways, the myth tht guys and girls can’t be just friends is immature. And the fact that people are willing to lose friends just because they don’t believe each other is just pathetic. Once people grow up they will begin to see that men and women are good friends and have good friendships without taking it further than being friendly. Hopefully one day my friends will understand this concept, but if not then clearly they are still immature and I shouldn’t have to stress and worry over it.
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