stuck

Feeling stuck in a relationship is always the worst. They treat you terribly but you can’t help but stay. You are sad more than you are happy but you can’t seem to leave. There is obviously something big holding you back. But you have no idea what it is. You are so sick of being upset and confused and you wish you could  just erase the past and start over. The first thing you should do is consider your options. Would you rather stay with this person who is making you upset or would you rather break up and try to be happy. If you decide to stay with this person and try to make things work, you need to set boundaries. Let the person know exactly how you feel and make sure they hear you out. If they can’t do the simple courtesy to take your feelings into consideration and actually respect your wants, then maybe you shouldn’t be with this person after all. You should never stay with someone who doesn’t respect you or doesn’t care about your feelings. Everyone deserves someone who treats them like royalty. Feeling important and cared for is very important in a relationship. If your significant other is blowing you off for other people who you do not feel comfortable with them hanging around each other and then they continue to lie about it, should point out to you a very big warning sign. So maybe at this point you should give it a rest. Try to move on and be happy. Because quite honestly you can’t be happy while you are being lied to. Just try to pick yourself up and make yourself happy. It is going to be really hard but it is what is best for your happiness. At the end of the day all that matters is that you are happy, and if you aren’t happy you need to do something to fix that.