Change (R2)

This blog will be about feeling like you need a change in your life. Sometimes when things aren’t going so well, you feel like you just want a change in your life. Everyone goes through rough times, and everyone deals with it differently. Change is a good thing, most of the time. It can start with getting a new hairstyle to switching up the arrangement of your room, to buying a new car, to finding new people to surround yourself with. A little change doesn’t hurt anything. When nothing is going your way, it helps to just distract yourself and do something different. Finding new friends and doing different things always helps when all you want to do is start over. Some people find going and doing something that they would never do will help them start fresh. Change can bring some good things and people into your life. Lets say you just broke up with your boyfriend and you just want to do something different. So you go get your nails done differently, and color your hair, and buy new clothes. That sort of thing helps some people. But in a boys situation it is a little different. When a guy breaks up with a girlfriend they want to go out and do things they were “restricted” to do while in a relationship. So they go hard, they buy new sneakers, maybe even start working out because they want to feel better about themselves too. Guys and girls are a lot alike when it comes to wanting change in their lives after a rough time. Sure, they do different things but they both do those things to make them feel better about themselves, and there is simply nothing wrong with that. Just like they say, do whatever makes you happy. Change can help you through a rough time, just make sure that change is a good change.

Feeling Stuck (R1)

This blog will be about being stuck in a relationship. First of all if you are stuck in a relationship then that is probably not a good sign and you should probably just end it all. But sometimes that can be really hard for someone to do. If you hear things about your boyfriend or girlfriend that you don’t want to believe but you already know is true then what is the point on holding on to that little bit hope that it isn’t true. If your girlfriend or boyfriend is being sneaky or shady about things, that is also a sign you shouldn’t stick around. Don’t wait for proof because by the time you get real proof you are going to be even deeper in the relationship and even more stuck than you were before. Also if your best friend is telling you that they do not like this person, and that they are bad news from the beginning, what makes you think that it is a good idea to continue being with this person? In all reality, we all know that our best friends know best, and they are only trying to look out for you and only want the best for you. Your best friend would never try to sabotage your relationship for no reason. Maybe you should take time and think to yourself about all the things you’ve heard and all the things your best friend has told you over and over again. Because in the end, you know they’re right and you know the best thing to do is end it and move on. Especially if you are not happy with the person you are will. You can pretend all you want, but you know deep down inside that it isn’t right to be with this person, and that you truly aren’t happy. Everyone deserves to be happy. So why waste your time on some person who doesn’t make you happy, and realize that there is someone else out there that would make you the happiest you could ever be.

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This blog will be about being a best friend. You may think someone is your best friend and they would do anything for you, no matter what, but when you finally realize that they really don’t care about you as much as you thought it kills you. Especially when you are always there for that person, and you are constantly making them feel better when they are in a slump, then when you need someone there for you, they are no where to be found. You may be surprised, or maybe not, but this sort of thing happens quite often. You care about someone a lot, and always put their problems in front of your own because in your mind making them happy is the best feeling you can experience. Well when you are down and in a slump and all you want is for your best friend to come over and tell you everything will be alright, and they never show up, that is probably the worst feeling. To be a true best friend you put them in front of yourself. Another thing that sucks is when you are trying to vent to your so called best friend, and they completely blow off what you are talking about and your problems, and they start talking about how perfect their life is. That is one of the lowest things you can do. Also being a best friend means all you want is to see your best friend happy, and you would do anything to make them happy. Trying to control who they talk to, and sabotaging their relationships is most likely the worst thing you can do if you are actually trying to make them happy. If you know your best friend is really into a guy, and they already have a past with them, you try to be there the best you can and give the best advice possible. If you tell your best friend that the guy they like is into you, and they shouldn’t even try, well you need to reevaluate your thinking. In this situation it doesn’t matter how you feel about this guy, if he makes your best friend happy, then you better support there every decision. And when your best friend decides to bring back an old friend from the past and you aren’t very happy about it, let them know you aren’t happy about it, but do not tell them you will hate them forever if they decide to become friends with them again. That is their decision, and if it makes them happy, then really why would you try to ruin that. Another thing is you never, ever put your friend down. Of course no one is perfect, but there is no reason you should be pointing out all the flaws of someone, especially your best friend. Yeah, of course you need to be honest with them, but you don’t put them down and make them feel even worse about themselves. Lets say your best friend is having a pretty rough day and they are feeling very self conscious, what do you do? There is one thing you should never do, and that is make them feel even worse about themselves and tell them the things they need to work on to be “perfect”. Because if you do that, you are a terrible person, and a horrible friend. The right thing to do is tell them all the good things they have going for them. Pretty much you are their best friend for a reason. They trust you and they trust your opinion. If you constantly put them down, and do horrible things to them, then you are obviously not a true best friend. To be a true best friend, you be honest, caring, and loving. You and your best friend should trust each other with everything and anything in the world. One day everyone realizes who is a real best friend, and who is not. Sometimes it takes awhile, but other times it just clicks. Lesson of the day, be a best friend, tell the truth, and overuse I love you.

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This blog will be about sticking up for your friend. For some reason you always feel the need to stick up for your best friend. It’s like the saying you mess with my best friend, you mess with me. You are always there for your best friend no matter. For example when a girl you and your best friend do not like very much gives your best friend a dirty as butt look, you know you should probably stay out of it and just let it go. But you have let it go for so long, this time you can’t help but let it all out. So obviously you are going to freak out on this girl, and make sure she knows there is no reason for her giving your best friend a dirty look, so you go pretty hard on this girl. Then afterwards you wonder if that was the best idea for you to do. But you realize that sticking up for your friend is important. Way more important than letting people be rude to your best friend. You may seem crazy at that point but it shows your best friend that you are there no matter. If your best friend can’t trust you to be there for them, then what is the point of being friends? When you are friends with someone it is a must that you guys have to have complete trust with each other. You do anything for a best friend. This is because the word friends means through thick and thin no matter what happens. Being a strong and good friend is a really good feeling. Sticking up for your friend is always a must. Make sure no one is rude with them, and make sure they are in a happy place. If someone is bothering your friend, you’re there backing them up, just because that’s the right thing to do.

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This blog will be about feeling relieved. When you go from not talking to someone to finally talking and joking around with them, it is so reliving. When you have so many feelings for someone it makes it difficult to not be able to talk to them. You feel kind of like you are missing something in your life. But trying too hard to talk to the person isn’t going to help at all. You just have to try and wait it out and let it happen. If you try too hard to talk to the person it will end up being a very awkward situation. Waiting for it to happen can be super hard and aggregating, especially if you are not a patient person. The waiting thing will probably annoy you so bad, but if you are really set on making progress with this person, the wait is worth it. Once you wait it out and let it happen by itself it feels a lot better. Making progress with this certain person will make you weirdly relived. It is almost like a huge brick building just got lifted off your shoulders. The moment you guys talk your heart will race and you will feel so nervous. But when you start joking around it makes the feeling so much better. The best thing is when you guys don’t just randomly stop talking, you continue you to keep up a conversation between you two. The sticky and sucky part of this situation is when you still have feelings for this person but you don’t think they feel the same and you want more out of it. The thing to do is to be patient. If something is going to happen between you guys it will happen. You need to let things happen. Just like the saying “what is meant to be will always find its way in the end.”

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This blog will be about feeling out of place. When you feel like you are out of place or you just don’t belong, it can really take a toll on you. Feeling like this can make you feel super down on yourself and then you start to blame yourself. You can keep asking yourself why don’t you fit it, why don’t people include me in things, why am i so alone. Well listen, you are most definitely not alone. There are thousands and billions of people who feel the exact same way you do. And they have no idea what to do either. Sometimes it is okay to not fit it. Fitting into the “in crowd” is pointless because you are constantly trying to be someone that you are not. If you are acting like someone you are not you could eventually lose who you really are. Once you lose who you truly are, it all goes downhill from there. You don’t want to be stuck trying to be someone you are not. You want to be who you are, and be accepted for who you truly are. If someone doesn’t like the person you really are, then they are not worth your time. Don’t blame yourself for not belonging, or not fitting in, because somewhere out there you do belong and you will fit in. Someone may even look up to you. Wouldn’t you rather be the person someone can look up to and set a good example for them than be the person who tries to be someone they are clearly not. In my opinion it is better to be your own person, and to not let what other people think or say about you bring you down. If you are confidant and can really be yourself, then you will belong somewhere. You won’t be left out. Someday you will realize that it isn’t all about being cool or fitting in. It is about being yourself and surrounding yourself with people who can be themselves also. Therefore, be yourself because that is what you are best at after all.

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This blog will be about being addicted to something. Being addicted to something can be a terrible thing. When you are addicted it pretty much takes over your life. There are crazy amounts of things you can be addicted to. The most common things people get addicted to are, drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, dip, eating, sex, internet, shopping, coffee, and gambling. But there are also a few weird and odd things that you can become addicted to, for example, hording, lying, cleaning, tanning, drinking blood, eating hair, loud music and so much more. The list can go on and on. There are so many television shows about having addictions. True life, My Strange Addiction, and Intervention are all examples of shows on television that show people’s life that have addiction. When you are addicted to something it can be really hard to become un-addicted. At first a person with an addiction will deny that they have an addiction. When this happens you have to approach them cautiously and get them to see how they are addicted to whatever they are addicted to. After you do that you offer them help to get rid of their addiction. Hopefully they will accept your offer and be calm about it. But that usually does not happen. Most the time the person will freak out and deny, deny, deny until they can’t deny anymore. Eventually they’ll have to listen and then they can get help. But if you are the person with the addiction you need to be open to your many options. Lets say you are addicted to smoking cigarettes. That is one disgusting habit, and very unhealthy as well. You can try to get a substitute for cigarettes like gum, chewing on a straw, or life savers. Of course there are many different medication to quit smoking, but if you can do it an easier, and cheaper way, I would advise you to do so. Addiction is a horrible feeling because you really don’t have much control over it. If you or someone you know has an addiction, you need to get them help or get help yourself. It is only for the best.