Common Interests (S1)

This blog will be about putting your boyfriend or girlfriend’s interests into consideration. When you are in a relationship you should always try to find some interest into what your boyfriend or girlfriend enjoys doing. For example, let’s say your girlfriend or boyfriend likes to watch football games on Sundays, but you aren’t too interested in football. Instead of just not being with them, spend some time and be with them doing things they like. It makes it easier for you if you try to make it fun for yourself also. If you like to cook, make food while your boyfriend or girlfriend is watching the game, they’ll probably appreciate the fact that you are there, but also the fact that you are making food too. In another situation let’s say your boyfriend or girlfriend likes to ride four wheelers, but you really don’t like anything like that, or you have a fear of it. But it is what your significant other really cares about, and it is a big part of their life. I would suggest just trying it, just for a day. If you truly do not enjoy it, let them know and maybe just find something else to do together. It is really important to do fun things with a boyfriend or girlfriend because it helps you guys keep the spark in the relationship. When the relationship is boring and you guys don’t go out and do things together, it might cause you guys to start fading away from each other. This is why it is a good idea to be with someone who has some of the same interests as you do. I’m not saying you guys have to be exactly alike, but at least have common interests so you guys can enjoy doing the things you love, together.