Decision Making (U1) (U2)

This blog will be about making decisions. Now the decisions I'm talking about aren't very serious or anything but they may be important to some people. For example, let's say you have feelings for someone but you don't know how they feel about you. You are confused and want to know what to do. You pretty much only have a few choices here. You could either tell the person how you feel and then deal with their answer, or you could try to just give up on the person, or you could even just keep on doing what you are doing and wait for things to fall back into place. That could be a really hard thing to do. Some people are very impatient people. Personally, I hate waiting. Especially when it comes to things like this. I am a very blunt person when it comes to feelings. But also for some people it could be really hard to face the facts. The best thing to do is to just ask the person straight up how they feel about you. Hopefully it is a good answer, and they feel the same way as you, but that isn't always the case. Let's say the person you have feelings for is very sweet and flirt with you here and there. But for some reason you are scared to find out if they have feelings for you. I mean if they text you every day, and try to keep a conversation with you that has to mean something right? Well not all the time, most of the time, but not always. And that's the thing that sucks about all this. You never know exactly how the other person is feeling. It also has to do with the fact that communication in our generation isn't the best. People hide behind their phones and can text someone all day, but when it comes to talking in person, they are lost of words. This makes things even more confusing and it makes it harder to find out how someone else is feeling about you. Let's say you just keep on doing what you are doing and taking it day by day. That could make you go insane. But if you just forget about it all and never say anything about how you feel, you would just keep asking yourself "what if". You never want to keep yourself wondering and confused. There is another thing to keep in mind also. You could be afraid to get hurt. I mean, everyone gets hurt eventually, but once you have gotten hurt over and over again you start pushing people away that you truly care about just because you are too afraid to get hurt. Getting hurt is nothing you can run from or avoid. It happens to everyone. Some people never really experience a horrible heartbreak because they don't put themselves out there and fall in love. Falling in love is a wonderful thing, but falling out of love sucks so hard. Nothing will ever be perfect, so don't hold yourself back just because you are scared to show your feelings and let someone in. If you want to be happy, then be happy. And if that means putting yourself out there and taking a chance to get hurt then do it. You never know until you try right? I've always been told to follow my heart and never give up on something I want. Honestly, I think that is some great advice. If you have feelings for someone just try it out. Let them know how you feel and just wait for their answer. If you don't get the answer you were looking for then oh well. At least you know you did what you could do and you don't have to look back and regret not trying.