choosing friends ( V1 and V2)

This blog will be about choosing the right people to be friends with. When it comes to having friends you want to make sure you have the good ones. Because some people make the mistake and trust the wrong people and then things don’t really work out very well. It is really hard to trust someone, but it is even harder to gain trust back after losing it. The thing is, you shouldn’t even have to worry about having a friend who needs to gain your trust back. Friends are supposed to be the most trustful people in your life, after your family of course. But sometimes friends become family, but only when they are true friends.  When it comes to picking out friends it is a good idea to tell them a “secret” and see if they tell other people. But the thing is this “secret” really won’t be a real secret but it is just a test to see how trustworthy they are. When you trust someone and then you find out they told a bunch of other people, it makes you not want to trust them anymore. I mean you told them this thing for a reason, because you trust them, but if they don’t have the respect for you to keep that secret, then they aren’t true friends and they are defiantly not worth your time. Another thing that friends shouldn’t do is lie to their friends. If you are friends with a liar, how are you supposed to know if they are ever telling the truth about something? Make sure you are friends with honest people. Being honest is super important especially when it comes to being honest with your friends. If you are not honest with your friends then again, they probably won’t be able to trust you with much. Also when your friend doesn’t like someone that you are friends with, there is no reason why you should have to stop being friends with that person. Just because your friend has a problem with them, doesn’t mean you have to have a problem with them. It is plain out just immature. And honestly, if your friend tells you that you are not allowed to be friends with someone they don’t get along with, then you need to re-evaluate your friendship. It becomes annoying when your friend starts to randomly dislike a person for no reason, because the real reason they don’t like them is probably because they are jealous of that person. Which again is super immature and must definitely not called for. Just think about it, if your friend can randomly just start hating someone for no reason and talking a lot of bad things about them, what makes you think that they won’t do the same thing to you? Because in all honesty they probably will. People who think they are better than everyone else most likely don’t have any true friends anyways. Therefore there isn’t a point in trying to be their friend in the first place. Another thing to watch out for is two faced friends. A two faced friend is a friend who will act completely okay with you in front of your face, but when you aren’t around they will turn a switch and could say horrible things about you. When you have a good friend they won’t talk badly about you, they will stand up for you no matter what. A good friend will always be there for you to listen to your problems and help you through the hard times. A real friend will be honest and true to you. So make sure your friends are true and real, because if they are not you could end up getting hurt.