(Y1 and Y2)

This blog will be about feeling alone. When people think about being alone it scares the living crap out of them. But in reality it really shouldn’t. Being alone can be a good thing sometimes. It gives a person time to take time for them. If you never take time for yourself you will eventually go crazy. Taking time for yourself means taking time and relaxing and thinking. It could also mean taking time to do something that you enjoy doing. Lets say that you are usually very busy with things like work, school, and sports. But you really enjoy riding your four-wheeler but since you are so busy with the other things you really never have time to go riding. Taking time for yourself will allow you to have time to go ride your four-wheeler. So in that situation being alone is definitely not a bad thing. Being alone also gives you time to focus on the things that really matter. For example when you are part of a group and you always are dealing with what is going on with all of their lives. But being alone gives you the time off from listening and being involved in everyone else’s lives and drama. Being alone completely gets rid of drama. Having drama in your life can be really annoying. I don’t know one person who enjoys having drama in their life. If they do then they obviously have a problem and should probably deal with it. Or they could just be used to having drama in their lives so they don’t know how it is without having drama in their life. Once you take yourself away from the group and all the drama you feel so much more free and relaxed. Being alone can be scary at times, but if you take time to think about it, everyone could benefit from being alone once in a while. If people are constantly with someone and constantly relaying on people to make decisions with them they will not have a chance to survive in the real world. They become dependable on someone and they can’t do anything by themselves. That is when you know it has become a problem. Being independent is super important. If you can’t be independent then clearly you aren’t your own person. I do not think I will ever understand how someone can constantly be with or around someone. I enjoy being on my own and alone. I can be my own person without people telling me who and what to be. Being independent gives people confidence. Also it will make them more successful in life. They will be able to make their own choices and do things on their own. If people relay on others for a really long time they begin to forget how to do things alone. It is sad when I see people asking their friends to come to a doctor’s appointment because they don’t want to go alone because they feel as if they will be bored. Or when someone has friends over and the second they leave they go on social media networks such as twitter and complain about how bored they are. If they are truly bored after being alone for 5 minutes that becomes a problem. I once was always with my best friend..actually I was pretty much with him every single day. But we grew apart within the last few months and I’ve adjusted to it very well in my opinion. I think it is because I was taught as growing up to be an independent person. I was always told don’t be a follower, be a leader. And in reality that is truly all you have to do. Being alone is a good thing. It makes you a strong, independent person.