This ones for the guys FF2

In my opinion, a guy should treat his girl like a princess. Girls go through enough in just one day. Honestly, girls are pretty strong human beings. Well I guess I should say some girls. Because not all girls deserve to be treated like a princess. I guess what I am trying to say is that if your girl gives you the world, and would bend over backwards for you, you better do the same. It is never a bad time to take her out to a nice dinner. It doesn't have to be anything fancy, but just something to remind her that you are taking care of her. A girl likes to feel comfortable around their boy. They want to feel wanted. If a girl doesn't feel wanted, you are probably going to have to listen to an earful of complaining from her. Do something nice for her once in awhile. For example, buy her flowers, leave a cute note on her car, make her breakfast in bed, sing to her, whatever floats your boat. Just make sure your girl knows you care, and knows you love her. Some guys think these gestures are stupid and lame. But if you want to keep your girl, your girl, you better show her you want her. A girl wants to be taken care of. They don't want to be smothered, but they want security. Never be sketchy to your girl. In my opinion, if you have to lie to her about where you are going, then clearly you shouldn't be going there in the first place. Of course girls a royal pain to guys, but lets face it, you can't live without us. So honestly, if you want to make your girl happy, treat her like royalty, because she most likely deserves it.

Disappointments FF1

What are you supposed to do when your biggest childhood role model becomes into a spiraling cyclone? Are you supposed to act like it isn't even real? Or are you supposed to shun them from your life? This is probably one of the hardest things I have ever had to deal with, and I have been dealing with it for quite some while now. My aunt, she has always been there for me. She taught me how to ride, and how to not be scared to fall and how to handle pain. She taught me to have no fear, to do what I want. She taught me how to be the best I can be physically. She has taught me everything not to be, by example. She is an alcoholic. She is a drug addict. She is a liar. She is weak. She comes off strong as hell, but even though she does put up with the things she has to go through, she still stays. She doesn't walk away from it. I used to be very important to her. I was like a daughter to her. I looked up to her, and she knew damn well I did. So why doesn't she stop? Why doesn't she give it all up to have her family back? Why is the alcohol and the drugs more important to her than us? This is something I don't think I will ever understand. Hearing day after day that something went wrong, is terrifying. Getting a phone call saying that she has totaled her truck, and doesn't remember doing it, is horrifying. Every night I am scared to death that I am going to wake up to a phone call telling me she has passed. Either overdosed or gotten into an accident. I am young, these are things that I shouldn't have to worry about....but I do. I love her, and I always will. But there comes a point when you realize, enough is enough.

Venting continued EE2

Summer is right around the corner and I couldn't be more excited. Summer means a lot of things to me, graduation, grad parties, warm weather, concerts, family, road trips, free time, and most importantly, freedom. This school has pretty much turned into a jail, a prison, a high security prison. I will never understand why 17 and 18 year olds need to ask to use the bathroom, and if they don't have a pass they need to stay after until 5:30 pm. This would result in these young adults needing to take off of work to do a disciplinary action for something that is against the 1st amendment. Once summer comes, I will never have to worry about the little things that I shouldn't be worried about. I will never have to step foot in this school again. Summer is entitled to have its ups and downs. Of course the drama isn't going to end just because everyone graduated. But it does give you more of an option to escape it. During summer I have no cares in the world. I can do what I want, when I want. At least when I'm not at work of course. I believe in seasonal depression. In winter when it is cold and snowy and droopy outside, people are more sad and down and pessimistic. But in summer when it is hot and sunny and beautiful outside people are more upbeat and happy and optimistic. Summer is a time of happiness and freedom. That is just another reason why I want to move down south. It is pretty much summer there all year round. It truly wouldn’t bother me to never see another snowflake again. As you can probably tell I am stoked to graduate high school and just be free from everything.

Venting EE1

Lately I have been finding it very hard to trust people. I have always had trust issues but I've always had at least one person who I can truly trust. But for some reason people keep blowing my trust I had in them. And I'm sorry but once you lose trust from someone it is impossible to get it back. You may think your best friend will be there for you no matter what, but when it comes to them being there for you when they have something else going on, it is like they aren't even there. I really just can't stand self centered people. The kind of people who think that their problems and their live are more important than anything else in the world. The thing is they are at the top of the world right now, but once reality slaps them across the face, they'll be screwed. People in my generation are very naive. They think that everything will be handed to them and that everything in life is simple and they will be royalty no matter what. Well they really need to think again. High school is nothing compared to the real world. In the real world there are bills to be paid, and work to be done, and responsibilities that parents and significant others can't do or buy for you. One day these kind of people are going to regret their decisions they made in the past. They are going to beg like hell to get them back. Because the people who were constantly there for them and were always pushed aside, won’t be there anymore. They will have lives to live and things to take care of. When people think that high school is amazing and that since they were so popular in high school that they will be popular and successful in the real world it just makes me laugh. No one truly knows where they are going to be in 20 or 30 years, but they should at least have a realistic idea of it.

DD1 and DD2

Have you ever been in a relationship where the person you are with is very clingy. If you have you probably already know how bad it sucks. Some people enjoy clinginess to a point. But theres a line that nobody should cross. It is okay to be cute and spend time with your boyfriend or girlfriend. But when it gets to the point where you ask to be with them everyday and every spare minute of their time you want to be with them, that is when it becomes a problem. Of course being in a new relationship is fun and you are just super excited, and thats alright but you need to give each other space. When you are in a relationship make sure that you still make time for your friends and most importantly, yourself. It isn’t healthy to always be with your boyfriend or girlfriend because you’ll end up relying on them, and then you’ll start realizing that you get annoyed with every little thing they do. You have to be sure you really like someone before you spend a ton of time with them because if you don’t you are going to realize how annoyed and bored you are with them. When your boyfriend or girlfriend becomes clingy you seem to start to not be attracted to them. They start to annoy you to the point where you can’t even take it anymore. Now if a boyfriend or girlfriend does start acting clingy you can always talk to them about it first. Sit down and have a talk about how you do not like clingy people and how you rather be independent. If they understand that and they understand that they need to give you space, then you are good to go! But if they apologize over and over again and make you feel uncomfortable around them then you should probably consider breaking up with them. Yes, it’ll definitely be awkward at first but eventually you will both get over it. If you start dating someone and you guys are hanging out a good amount of time, and you start to see yourself drifting away from that person for no reason that is usually a sign of you realizing that you don’t truly have feelings for them. Another way to see if you have real feelings for someone is if you start to pick out little things about them that bother you. If you really have true feelings for someone the little things don’t bother you, actually you don’t really even notice the little things. It is quite easy to figure out if you have true feelings for someone. If you don’t even get the butterflies while you are with them, then that is a clear sign that you are not into them. Another sign is when your parents don’t even know about them. If you are in a serious relationship you take them home to meet mom and dad and you are excited but yet very nervous for it. Not nervous as in you are afraid they won’t like them, nervous because you like them a lot and you know it is going to last. Being with someone is serious. Of course if you are in middle school it isn’t as serious and relationships don’t even really count. But once you become a young adult and start to have feelings for people, it becomes a messy situation. There are so many things you have to worry about and stress over. But in reality there really shouldn’t be. In a real relationship you should be comfortable with each other, and you should definitely enjoy being around each other. If you don’t enjoy spending time with someone then you clearly don’t like them.  The moral here is just make sure you truly like a person before you agree to get into a relationship with them.

CC1 and CC2



At times people begin to give up on themselves because bad things have been happening to them recently. But then at the most random moment a really amazing thing happens to them. This can happen to pretty much anyone. But in the situation I’m talking about this person found someone for them. This person knows who they truly are and accepts them for it. Also they understand them and has a lot of the same interests as them. It is such a good feeling being wanted and finally finding someone to be with. Okay though, lets be real, it is super hard to find someone who is going to be completely real with you and who won’t use you. In society nowadays people use people left and right. It becomes the cool thing to do to hook up with multiple people at once. Actually that is more common in guys. Guys get applauded for hooking up with and “playing” girls. But if a girl falls for one guy she gets made fun of. It has become really hard for a girl to fall for a boy because of the way guys treat girls nowadays. Guys treat girls like a game, they think it is hilarious to have multiple girls fall for them and then never make any of them their girl. Guys have lost a lot of respect for girls, and that eventually got girls to lose respect for the guys. Why should we have to respect guys who treat us like a piece of meat, oh wait we don’t. But anyways, once you actually find someone who is real it is probably the best feeling. You feel like you are on top of the world. The feeling of having butterflies comes back, and you are nervous around this person and honestly you haven’t really felt this way in a super long time. When you hang out with this person you are automatically really happy. Talking to someone new is always such a good feeling. Everything feels brand new. You get to start over. You get to make new memories. And most importantly you can finally be completely happy. Of course you are going to have some doubts but the thing is you have to take it slow. People think that moving fast will get them farther in their relationships but they couldn’t be more wrong. Moving slow is the way to go. If you move slow it gives you more time to think about how you feel. Also moving slow helps you get to know the person way more than you would if you didn’t. Getting to know someone before you go and make the decision to date them is honestly the best thing you can do. You never want to just jump into a relationship with someone without knowing pretty much everything about them. To be in a relationship you obviously want some surprises but you never really want any bad ones. I hate when people think that they love someone after like 2 months of knowing them, because you don’t actually know every single fact about that person.  When couples tell each other they love each other too early their relationship will fade away more quickly and it won’t end well. It is proven that relationships that take it slow and take time to say I love you until they actually mean it are known to last way longer than the relationships that are rushed. If you think about it there is really no point in rushing a relationship. If you want to make it last, time your time, and go slow.

BB1 and BB2

Sometimes it is really hard to let your guard down after being hurt multiple times. Especially when you start talking to someone new after trying to talk to people and all they do is mess with your feelings. You become a little bit paranoid and you don’t really know what to do about it. You may really like this new person but you are terrified that they are going to hurt you just like everyone else did. But listen, sometimes it is okay to just let go, and let things happen. Because if you think about it, you have been hurt so many times that by now you should know how to come out of it even stronger. Of course don’t ever become attached to someone for a very long time. Being attached to someone can make or break you. But in most situations it will break you. You also need to keep in mind to not push people away. You may just push the right person away and you’ll always regret it. Remember to stay close and try but don’t become attached and don’t start to rely on them. Once you start relying on people you are pretty much done with. Never rely on anyone but yourself. You really shouldn’t even rely on your best friend completely because it is super important to be able to be independent. If you don’t know how to be independent you aren’t going to make it in the real world. Now people think their high school relationships are going to last. Well let me tell you now, they won’t. Most high school relationships don’t last pass the summer after they graduate. People go their opposite ways. And if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend in high school and it comes the time to think about where you are going to college, never ever base your choice on where your boyfriend or girlfriend are going to. Make your decision based on what you want to do, and where you will be most successful and most happy. Now I’m not saying that all high school relationships don’t last because some actually do. All I am saying is don’t base the rest of your life off of your high school relationship because you’ll end up screwed over. Finding someone who gets you is amazing, but if you are continuing to fight over and over you should know by now that it isn’t going to work. You need to trust the person you are with. If you can’t trust them then you aren’t going to be able to keep a good, healthy relationship. Now sometimes people meet somewhere towards the end of high school, not even meet them actually just realize they have feelings for someone. Now usually those relationships are known to last a lot longer. This is because they are simply older. They are more mature and have been through a lot more relationships. I know from experience that once you get into a good relationship and you two are together for over a year it feels like nothing can stop you guys, you feel like your relationship is going to last forever. I’ve come to realize that that isn’t the case in reality. In reality relationships break up, people fade away, and you move on. So many girls in high school cry over and over again about their boyfriends breaking up with them. And honestly, they have no reason to. They think that they will be alone forever and they complain on social media networks like twitter about it. In my opinion people need to learn that it is just high school and once they get out, there is so much more options for them. And I can promise that high school heart breaks get easier to handle once you’ve learned how to handle them.

Goals AA2

This blog will be reaching your goals. Let's say your goal is to become healthy and fit. Well to do that you obviously have to go out and get a gym membership. Another thing that may help you is getting a personal trainer. But that is only an option if you have the money to do it. Personal trainers cost a crazy amount of money. To get results you have to actually eat healthy. Some people assume that if they go to the gym here and there they can still eat whatever they want. Well honestly, they couldn't be more wrong. You have to be super strict with your diet when you are training. If you have the money to do so, I would suggest hiring a dietitian. They are very costly but they do help a lot. Having a dietitian and a personal trainer will help you get better results faster. Most people think that they don't need to be strict with themselves. If they just run on a treadmill they'll get what they want. Reality check hunny, that isn't going to get you any where. If you want to be healthy have a balanced diet and go to the gym daily. Of course you need to take a day off here and there and let your body rest. But you need to also think about the time you spend there. You can't spend 20 minutes at the gym 3 days a week to get the most efficient results. You need to spend at least an 1 and a half 5 to 6 days out of the week to get results fast. As long as you are focused and know clearly what exactly you want you should be more than okay. The key is stay focused and be strict.  

We want to be treated our age. AA1

This blog will be about being treated like a little child when you are a young adult. Being treated like you are immature and can't handle things on your own is a horrible feeling. This often happens in high school mostly with seniors. You would think that if you are 17 and 18 years old, sometimes even 19 years old, you would be allowed to make your own decisions. For example, when you want to have lunch release, but you don't live a mile from the school. I believe that if you have a vehicle and are a senior and have decent grades that you should be able to have lunch release. The residence of a student isn't a student’s choice. They live where they live. Therefore why should they have less advantages of people who live closer to the school. That's just one example though. Another example is when you want to go to the bathroom, why must you have to ask the teacher if you are allowed to go? It doesn't make sense. If a person needs to use the restroom why should they need permission to do so. Also seniors want to make their schedules as easy and laid back as possible. If they have enough credits to graduate they shouldn't have to take pointless classes and have to focus on things that aren't going to help them in life. They should be able to take the classes they need and that's it. It gets really annoying when you are constantly told what to do and how to do it. Especially when you are clearly old enough to make your own decisions. Eventually maybe schools will be more laid back when it comes to those issues.  High school needs to prepare the students for the real world, not be a babysitter to them.