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At times people begin to give up on themselves because bad things have been happening to them recently. But then at the most random moment a really amazing thing happens to them. This can happen to pretty much anyone. But in the situation I’m talking about this person found someone for them. This person knows who they truly are and accepts them for it. Also they understand them and has a lot of the same interests as them. It is such a good feeling being wanted and finally finding someone to be with. Okay though, lets be real, it is super hard to find someone who is going to be completely real with you and who won’t use you. In society nowadays people use people left and right. It becomes the cool thing to do to hook up with multiple people at once. Actually that is more common in guys. Guys get applauded for hooking up with and “playing” girls. But if a girl falls for one guy she gets made fun of. It has become really hard for a girl to fall for a boy because of the way guys treat girls nowadays. Guys treat girls like a game, they think it is hilarious to have multiple girls fall for them and then never make any of them their girl. Guys have lost a lot of respect for girls, and that eventually got girls to lose respect for the guys. Why should we have to respect guys who treat us like a piece of meat, oh wait we don’t. But anyways, once you actually find someone who is real it is probably the best feeling. You feel like you are on top of the world. The feeling of having butterflies comes back, and you are nervous around this person and honestly you haven’t really felt this way in a super long time. When you hang out with this person you are automatically really happy. Talking to someone new is always such a good feeling. Everything feels brand new. You get to start over. You get to make new memories. And most importantly you can finally be completely happy. Of course you are going to have some doubts but the thing is you have to take it slow. People think that moving fast will get them farther in their relationships but they couldn’t be more wrong. Moving slow is the way to go. If you move slow it gives you more time to think about how you feel. Also moving slow helps you get to know the person way more than you would if you didn’t. Getting to know someone before you go and make the decision to date them is honestly the best thing you can do. You never want to just jump into a relationship with someone without knowing pretty much everything about them. To be in a relationship you obviously want some surprises but you never really want any bad ones. I hate when people think that they love someone after like 2 months of knowing them, because you don’t actually know every single fact about that person.  When couples tell each other they love each other too early their relationship will fade away more quickly and it won’t end well. It is proven that relationships that take it slow and take time to say I love you until they actually mean it are known to last way longer than the relationships that are rushed. If you think about it there is really no point in rushing a relationship. If you want to make it last, time your time, and go slow.