DD1 and DD2

Have you ever been in a relationship where the person you are with is very clingy. If you have you probably already know how bad it sucks. Some people enjoy clinginess to a point. But theres a line that nobody should cross. It is okay to be cute and spend time with your boyfriend or girlfriend. But when it gets to the point where you ask to be with them everyday and every spare minute of their time you want to be with them, that is when it becomes a problem. Of course being in a new relationship is fun and you are just super excited, and thats alright but you need to give each other space. When you are in a relationship make sure that you still make time for your friends and most importantly, yourself. It isn’t healthy to always be with your boyfriend or girlfriend because you’ll end up relying on them, and then you’ll start realizing that you get annoyed with every little thing they do. You have to be sure you really like someone before you spend a ton of time with them because if you don’t you are going to realize how annoyed and bored you are with them. When your boyfriend or girlfriend becomes clingy you seem to start to not be attracted to them. They start to annoy you to the point where you can’t even take it anymore. Now if a boyfriend or girlfriend does start acting clingy you can always talk to them about it first. Sit down and have a talk about how you do not like clingy people and how you rather be independent. If they understand that and they understand that they need to give you space, then you are good to go! But if they apologize over and over again and make you feel uncomfortable around them then you should probably consider breaking up with them. Yes, it’ll definitely be awkward at first but eventually you will both get over it. If you start dating someone and you guys are hanging out a good amount of time, and you start to see yourself drifting away from that person for no reason that is usually a sign of you realizing that you don’t truly have feelings for them. Another way to see if you have real feelings for someone is if you start to pick out little things about them that bother you. If you really have true feelings for someone the little things don’t bother you, actually you don’t really even notice the little things. It is quite easy to figure out if you have true feelings for someone. If you don’t even get the butterflies while you are with them, then that is a clear sign that you are not into them. Another sign is when your parents don’t even know about them. If you are in a serious relationship you take them home to meet mom and dad and you are excited but yet very nervous for it. Not nervous as in you are afraid they won’t like them, nervous because you like them a lot and you know it is going to last. Being with someone is serious. Of course if you are in middle school it isn’t as serious and relationships don’t even really count. But once you become a young adult and start to have feelings for people, it becomes a messy situation. There are so many things you have to worry about and stress over. But in reality there really shouldn’t be. In a real relationship you should be comfortable with each other, and you should definitely enjoy being around each other. If you don’t enjoy spending time with someone then you clearly don’t like them.  The moral here is just make sure you truly like a person before you agree to get into a relationship with them.