BB1 and BB2

Sometimes it is really hard to let your guard down after being hurt multiple times. Especially when you start talking to someone new after trying to talk to people and all they do is mess with your feelings. You become a little bit paranoid and you don’t really know what to do about it. You may really like this new person but you are terrified that they are going to hurt you just like everyone else did. But listen, sometimes it is okay to just let go, and let things happen. Because if you think about it, you have been hurt so many times that by now you should know how to come out of it even stronger. Of course don’t ever become attached to someone for a very long time. Being attached to someone can make or break you. But in most situations it will break you. You also need to keep in mind to not push people away. You may just push the right person away and you’ll always regret it. Remember to stay close and try but don’t become attached and don’t start to rely on them. Once you start relying on people you are pretty much done with. Never rely on anyone but yourself. You really shouldn’t even rely on your best friend completely because it is super important to be able to be independent. If you don’t know how to be independent you aren’t going to make it in the real world. Now people think their high school relationships are going to last. Well let me tell you now, they won’t. Most high school relationships don’t last pass the summer after they graduate. People go their opposite ways. And if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend in high school and it comes the time to think about where you are going to college, never ever base your choice on where your boyfriend or girlfriend are going to. Make your decision based on what you want to do, and where you will be most successful and most happy. Now I’m not saying that all high school relationships don’t last because some actually do. All I am saying is don’t base the rest of your life off of your high school relationship because you’ll end up screwed over. Finding someone who gets you is amazing, but if you are continuing to fight over and over you should know by now that it isn’t going to work. You need to trust the person you are with. If you can’t trust them then you aren’t going to be able to keep a good, healthy relationship. Now sometimes people meet somewhere towards the end of high school, not even meet them actually just realize they have feelings for someone. Now usually those relationships are known to last a lot longer. This is because they are simply older. They are more mature and have been through a lot more relationships. I know from experience that once you get into a good relationship and you two are together for over a year it feels like nothing can stop you guys, you feel like your relationship is going to last forever. I’ve come to realize that that isn’t the case in reality. In reality relationships break up, people fade away, and you move on. So many girls in high school cry over and over again about their boyfriends breaking up with them. And honestly, they have no reason to. They think that they will be alone forever and they complain on social media networks like twitter about it. In my opinion people need to learn that it is just high school and once they get out, there is so much more options for them. And I can promise that high school heart breaks get easier to handle once you’ve learned how to handle them.